Okie let's try this.
1. Integrity
This is a big word which can be baseless if not defined and thus empty.
But for me, right now, it means
a. being consistent with my own values and principles.
b. (though not exactly synonymous) being honest and not hypocritical.
c. and by extension, my values and principles should not change simply according to my whim or fancy.
2. Family
The most important people in my life.
a. be supportive of them because they have been supportive of me.
b. be thankful and appreciative that they are here, and give me what I need to be who I am, and that I do not have the family troubles that others may have, and that others may not have the blessings that my family gives to me.
c. meaning do not take them for granted.
3. Graciousness
Okie, this one is gonna be broad(er).
a. be kind and understanding. Give others the benefit of the doubt and let them have their way (if it does not infringe on my own principles or hurt anyone I love).
b. have empathy.
c. including a different but relevant subpoint here: be mindful of what I say, and keep silent if nothing constructive to add. Meaning, don't bitch. Best if don't habour ill thoughts about others also.
4. Discipline
This one I need to work on. A lot.
a. stay neat.
b. be religious about any study plans or skincare/exercise regimes implemented.
c. please, don't procrastinate.
5. Friends
Another important group of people.
a. have loyalty. I'm fine with blind loyalty sometimes (cross-ref with: integrity not necessarily honesty/truth)
b. define friends. Don't spend time on people whom do not care for me as I do them. (not all facebook friends are friends).
c. accept them as they are. not tolerate. So that they may also learn to accept me as I am.
